Day 6 of December

Today was the first day in a long time that I didn't want to go to work this morning. In fact I forgot to set the alarm this morning and didn't wake up until 7:00. Last night was the Christmas concert for the preschool. The kids did really well. Except for three students, everyone in the morning class was there. The best concert moment would have been when the teacher was asking and reminding the students what the shepherds used their staff for. They could use it to help sheep get out of ditches; they used it to herd the sheep and they used it to chase off wolves. The teacher said, yes if a wolf came, the shepherd would bonk the wolf on the nose with his staff and the wolf would be sad and run away. Well one of the girls said "He could also hit him on the head and knock his brains out." This from a 4 year old!!!!!
So this morning I just had to go to the school to help clean up from the evening and prepare for January. Patrick came with me so he could use the car. He dropped me off and headed to Market Mall to do more shopping. Well that's when the communication broke down. Even after I asked Patrick to watch how I got to the school - he still got lost - and lost - and lost. So what should have been a 5 minute car ride to pick me up, turned into a 45 minute ride; and three phone calls. That wasn't even the frustrating part. The frustrating part was when Patrick tried to convince me that the problem was miscommunication on my part. Needless to say, we got that straightened out in a hurry.
So the kitchen is clean and straighten out, all the gifts are wrapped (except the ones I haven't purchased yet) and the laundry is 1/2 done. After I pick up Ashley from the airport, I'll be working on the rest of the Christmas cards tonight.

Night
Stacey

Day 5 of December

:City sidewalks, busy sidewalks, dressed in holiday style - in the air there's a feeling of Christmas. The countdown to Christmas is on and I am no where near ready. I have half of my Christmas cards done. 3/4 of my shopping done; none of the baking (although to be honest, I hadn't planned on baking anyway). The Christmas tree is still standing - turkey has been bought.....hmmmmm - I know there's more, but can't think of it right now.

Friday night was Bill's company Christmas party. It was a nice evening. The food was delicious and the music was fantastic. Unfortunately Mr. Hop-a-long is still not back to his dancing self. We did manage to get a couple of dances in. They had character artists for entertainment. Our picture doesn't look like either of us, except for my boobs and Bill's sore leg. This is the first year where there were hardly any people dancing. They might have goofed by putting the bar in a separate room. I love to sit and watch people dance.

Needless to say I was a little tired when I woke up this morning and had to go into work at the cards. I thought I would get there early before the crowd - well the quietness didn't last long.

Patrick is off to tech practice and I'm hoping I can sneak in a nap while he's gone. Tonight would be a good night to finish off any Christmas stuff. Hopefully I'll remember that when I wake up from my nap.

Stacey

Day 4 of December

Well it is December 12th and I still haven't gotten my Christmas cards sent. Let me rephrase that, I haven't even finished my cards. That is the next thing on my list - on my very long list.
Saturday night Patrick and I went to see another school play. This time it was MacBeth and my niece Jane was in it. Of course Patrick wanted to sit in the front row and so we did. It was a little too close for me. My neck was getting sore from staring up at MacBeth for most of the night. He would stand right in front of me. Thankfully, the few times that spit came flying from his mouth, he was standing somewhere else. The young man who played MacBeth was an amazing actor. He delivered his lines with such conviction and enthusiasim, that even I was getting into MacBeth. There was one point in the play where he placed his hand in the witche's cauldron. When he brought his hands up, he shook them and some of the witches brew (vinegar and such) landed on Patrick. Well both Patrick and I spend the next 5-10 minutes trying not to laugh out loud. I'm sure the entire front row was shaking from our giggling. Who knew there would be comedy. Jane did a wonderful job as well in the play. At one point, her character was being threatened by MacBeth, and the look of terror on Jane's face had me scared as well.
After the play Jane, Patrick and I went out for something to eat and then headed home. Everyone was tired.
Today I did my treadmill - not as early as I had hoped, but there were things on that darn list... Then I headed out to some stores. Hit Michaels first. I got Jane's Christmas present. You know the feeling you get when you have bought that perfect gift, well I believe Jane's is the perfect gift I bought this year. I can't wait to see her face. After Michael's I met my sister Robin over at Walmart. Needed a couple of stocking stuffers. Well we arrived only to discover, they now sell produce, and everything. I thought I would try out this new concept (had planned on going to Sobey's anyhow) and I think I got most things on my grocery list. (no frozen fruit or meat though)
I trying a Lean Cuisine Healthy eating program for a week. Their meals are very similar to Jenny Craigs. We'll see how they taste. You can go their website and print out a meal plan for a week.

K, writing in my blog is off the list. I better move on to other things.

Stacey

Day 3 of December

Tuesday (that would be yesterday), was a very eventful day. I worked in the preschool in the morning. The class was small; only 15 children, but seemed as busy as if we had 20. Sometimes my mind is more tired than my body. I love their inquisitive nature.
Then it was time for job number 2 - picked up Susan and Patrick and we went to soccer. Patrick didn't do any training after coaching, so we were able to leave for home around 5:15ish. I dropped the son off at home, and I headed to job number 3. It's the Christmas season, so the cards need a little more attention; Well at least at Chapters. I was just arriving at the store and I ran into a dear friend I used to work with at PREP. It was so wonderful to see Nav. She has been on my list of people to call and this was such a nice surprise. We chatted for a bit and made plans to get together soon. After a couple of hours with the cards, I headed to Safeways - 10% Tuesday you know!!!! Got the few items I needed and ran into Bill's cousin, Ginger. Had a nice chat and just as we were saying good-bye, I see another young lady I used to work with at PREP, Miss Robin. She is looking happy and healthy. It reminded me how much I miss a few people I used to work with and how much I miss the kids. Needless to say, I was humming Christmas carols all the way home. What a way to put a smile on your face.

I've realized I'm getting behind in posting my 50 list. According to my records and I could be wrong on this, I've reported on 5 - so my list is down to 45. Well I have two more to knock off my list: Sept 20 (my birthday) I didn't have any pop for 2 months. Again, since Sept 20, I didn't have any alcohol for 2 months. Both those can now be checked off. Yes I've had a cocktail since then; and yes I've had pop since then. But I can honestly say, I'd rather have sparkling water, or water and lime juice instead of the pop.

I better get a few things done, or I'm going to be behind again today.

PS: Congratutions to my friend De - another 1/2 marathon under her belt. She is my inspiration!!!!

Stacey

Day 2 of December

Is it just me, or do Saturday and Sunday seem to have fewer hours in them!!!!!
Doesn't seem like I did very much, but the time just flew by. Saturday, Patrick had a soccer game at noon. Both Bill and I went to watch. Again, the team wasn't on their game. And the ref'ng was scary. You don't appreciate how a ref can make a game enjoyable or very frustrating. By the end of the game, I thought both teams were going to have a brawl. It was a little disconcerning. Then to make matters worse, Patrick took a push/fall/trip into the corner boards. Thank goodness I didn't see the play (didn't have the best angle), but you could hear it. Didn't realize it was Patrick until I couldn't see him as I was looking for his reaction. I think that is the first time for him. (and hopefully his last) I was more concerned than he was at first, but by the end of the evening he was wondering if he should get checked out. I gave him a SCAT test (sports concussion assessment test) right after it happened, and he passed. (with math tests were that easy for him). I woke him up a couple of times during the night and he woke up. He should probably stay away from soccer for a week, just to let the jiggling of his brain stop. I'm sure he won't be happy about that.
Sunday I took my mom grocery shopping. First we met Sharry and Tracey and Kiena (sister and niece and great niece) for coffee at Tim Hortons. It was a nice visit. Then Mom and I headed to Safeways. I can't figure out how come mom spent more in groceries than me. Then of course it was lunch time, so Mom and I headed out to her favorite restaraunt (thanks to Alisa) Ricki's. I love their pancakes. I could eat them for any meal.
Of course as soon as I got home, Patrick wanted to borrow the car to go Christmas shopping. Not sure when I can expect him home.

I cleaned up under the stairs last night so I can get some of the Christmas boxes back under there. I remember when Patrick would use under the stairs as his Harry Potter Room. !!!

Time to get a few things done and off to relax.

Night
Stacey

Day 1 of December

Maybe I am on a roll. It's my first blog of December, and it's only the 2nd day of December. I am so not ready for Christmas. I haven't even finished my Christmas cards yet; but the good news is, I have started them.

The past few days have been a blur. I think this is the first night where I have actually been home and not have to had gone somewhere. Having said that, Patrick just called. He took my car to his soccer practice. Now he is sitting in the parking lot and he can't get the remote to work. Of course his first phone call is too me. We try and figure out what is wrong - doesn't work; so we get Bill on the phone to make suggestions; he does; the remote still doesn't work. Ok, I say, I'll jump in the car and bring over the other remote!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Wait - stop--- you've got my car and I can't drive the others! One part of my brain is thinking - Oh, no, Bill's going to have to interrupt what he's doing (fixing his computer) and the other half of my brain is thinking (yeah, I don't have to change out of my PJ's.) I hope Santa only heard the first part of my brain!



So I thought, good time to get something down in the blog.

Bill celebrated his 50th birthday yesterday. I believe they had a little celebration at work. Somehow a picture of Bill in his bodybuilding "attire" got circulated at work. Not sure how they got a hold of that............................ They also presenting him with a valuable bottle of tequila. He was pretty happy when he got home! Not sure if it was from the party or the tequila.

We still haven't gotten any further with the Christmas Tree. Bill took it out to the garage Sunday to make a stand for it. Now I know Christmas is not his favorite holiday, but if I didn't know that, I do now. The stand works great - but I wish I could draw a picture so you could see it.
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K, that's my picture. I hope it posts as well as I drew it. The x's are the tree (pretty simple) The 0's are the tree stand Bill built, out of wood and covered in wrapping paper. Now, don't get me wrong, I do appreciate it. (the other option was just throw out the stupid tree) But when I hear the word Christmas stand, the image that comes to my mind it something much smaller and based from the base of the tree. It certainly does look better than hanging from the ceiling; and it certainly is straight; and I'm pretty sure it's not going to fall over!!!! Ok, I take back any complaints - I got my optic tree!!!! Now how to figure out how to store it after Christmas.

Well, tomorrow is Friday, and I'm covering for Beth, so I'll be at the preschool tomorrow; then I'm going to take a visit to the cemetery. It is one year since Mom Wee passed away. I could sure use some of her mother-in-law advice.........

Good night, I'm off to work on those Christmas cards.

Stacey

Day 8 of November

It's only 10:00 pm, but it feels like midnight. It has been a long day. Was up before the crack of dawn this morning. 6:00 am to be exact. Bill had tickets to a private screening of the new Harry Potter movie. From the crowd response, it was very good. I can't remember if I even seen the last Harry Potter movie. Patrick's girlfriend came in Ashley's place. When we told her she had to pretend to be Ashley, she did a very good job.
Right after the movie, we had to get to the soccer dome for Patrick's soccer game. Thanks to the GPS and the dry roads, we were there in plenty of time. Unfortunately the boys lost - the other team played a much better game - but with the right mentallity and energy, I think our boys could have challenged them for the win. Patrick was happy with his play, so he's off the hook for eating popcorn at 9:30 in the morning!
We dropped Stephanie off at home, and I came home for a snooze. Patrick was supposed to be doing homework and I don't know what Bill got up to. Bill headed out early to hit the gym (doesn't miss a day) and then he was off for an end of season dinner with the rugby guys. I'm sure there will be alot of injury stories to share. So Patrick and I got lazy and ordered Chinese Food. I made sure to order enough for supper tomorrow night as well. Not feeling the cooking this weekend.
Friday night was a bit of a disaster. I had bought our fake tree and Patrick and Stephanie had plans to decorate it. Even with the new stand, the darn thing wouldn't stand up. Talk about frustrating. So we dragged everything back downstairs and I tied it to a hook in the ceiling. Poor pathetic tree. Bill is going to take it out in the garage tomorrow and shoot it out of it's misery. Actually, he's going to take it in the garage and make a stand that would hold up this house. I just had to have the fibre optic tree.
I'm going to focus on having some great energy tomorrow and take mom for groceries - not a big fan of crowds, but somebody's got to do it and Sunday is my only free day this week.
Well, off to work on more Christmas cards.

Night Stacey

Day 7 of November

Day 7 and November is almost over. I have been a very busy lady - so a short synopsis of the past week is in order.

I have had the best time cuddling my new nephew. What a sweet heart. Last Friday and this past Sunday were cuddle and spoil Linden days. Did I mention he is a sweet heart. You forget how tiny a new born is.

The weather has been cold and colder around here. Thankfully today the sun at least peaked through the clouds.

I had a visit with psychic Kim on Wednesday. This is my third time to see her, but it certainly wasn't my best visit. I was hoping to have a little chat with my mother-in-law, but she was nowhere to be heard. Maybe next time. However, Dad was there again - and apparently he was patting me on the head. Kim asked if Dad had a brother that passed recently. I told her no, and she was surprised. She said there was a man with him, seemed like a brother, that had recently passed. I explained that his brother-in-law recently passed. She just went hmmm, maybe - she said this man had a farm, or small town feeling around him!!!! I'm pretty sure she was referring to Uncle Len. Then I asked if Dad had been the one to meet this man. She said all souls/spirits are there , but the one to greet this man was his mother, a very small and petite, but fiesty lady; maybe Grandmas Fraser. Anyway that is one more thing that can be ticked off my 50 list.

Wednesday night Bill and I went to see Paul Revere and the Raiders. I had won tickets on the radio. Probably a lot of people don't remember this band. One of my favorite songs growing up was Indian Reservation. Bill said that his first ever album was Paul Revere and the Raiders. Anyway, Paul is almost 73. The music brought back a lot of memories; but the best part of the show, was the sense of humor. It was pure entertainment. If you are familar with this band, you'll love the show. Don't tell Bill, but I ordered the CD for him for Christmas!

Thursday, the weather was much warmer, and more adaptable to my mood. Happy Thanksgiving to all my American friends. Have fun shopping on Friday.

I'm am off to bed early tonight. Tired of being tired.

Night
Stacey

Day 6 of November

The cold snowy weather continues - for now.
Had an interesting conversation with my Mom yesterday. She was under the impression that I hadn't been in touch with her since Uncle Len's memorial the previous Tuesday. At first I started to argue with her that yes, I had been in touch 4 or 5 times since. Mom didn't think so - and then she remember that Sunday we talked as I was going to the Motown show. But that was the only time, she was sure. And then the light bulb when on - for me. She honestly doesn't remember. Why do I need to make her remember? Unless the conversation was filled with facts that she is looking for, the issue is not an issue. So she doesn't remember. I don't want to be the one to make her feel like she is getting old and her memory is gone. So note to self, I need to be more aware of these type of incidents to keep Mom at a healthy happy place in her life.

This Wednesday (hump day) gave me a bit of a challenge for getting anything done. I had great plans - but my eyes just wanted to veg. I did manage to get out and shovel the driveway and sidewalks before lunch time. But by the time I left to pick up Patrick for coaching, they were covered again. Project for thursday's lunch time.

Had a bit of shock tonight - bill has done many weird things in his time, but this one is at the top of the list. He asked me to come into his office to how me our list of assets and where everything is, how it works etc. At first this didn't seem out of the ordinary. Sometimes we do a 1/2 summary. But his next comment left me speechless. He said he would place the piece of paper on the corner of his desk. Again I was still baffled. Then comes the reason - seems Bill and a few other workers from the company are taking a flight up to Grande Prairie for the day. They are chartering a small plane from out of Springbank. One of the guys going has some concerns. These concerns raised concerns for bill. so the deal is, they drive to the Springbank airport tomorrow, and unless this fellow can qualify his concerns the flight is a go. Was it wrong for me to be furious. Then I realized this is bill and he doesn't want to leave anything to chance. My comment to him, was, if he didnt' come back, I was giving all his money away to charity. And I thought I was too organized.

Looking forward to a relaxing weekend.

Stacey

Day 5 of November

After every calm weekend, must come a crazy Monday (or manic as the song goes)

I only had two must get done jobs for Monday- laundry and supper. Laundry, because I promised the son he wouldn't have to rescue his soccer uniform out of a stinky washing machine any more and supper because Patrick and I won't get home until 7:00 tonight.

Laundry got started and then I moved into the kitchen. Defrosted the chicken; emptied the the dishwasher; reloaded the dishwasher; boiled the chicken; needed two pots (lots of chicken). Since when does spilled boiled water create such smoke; you have probably guessed the next outcome. I also knew the smoke detector was going to go off, so I turned on the fan, and opened up the back door - alas, not in time. So the smoke detector goes off as does Maya. I know the procedure; the alarm company is going to call and find out if it is a false alarm. Now where did I leave Bill's phone. I haven't been able to find the kitchen one all morning. Patrick has it hidden somewhere. Hmmm, keep looking - then the phone rings; I think it just started but it's hard to hear over the damn smoke alarm and Maya. I run downstairs to get the basement phone but it has stopped ringing. So I run back upstairs and the phone rings again - I find Bill's phone and luckily I am able to get to it before they hang up. Yes it's the alarm company; he asks me if I'm cooking (obviously there is a note on file about previous incidents) yes, I'm cooking, my name is Stacey, and he hangs up. In the back of my mind, I'm hoping he heard everything and the fire department won't be showing up - should I get out of my PJ's and comb my hair? Naw, if they show up I'll just let them rescue me.......

Then came Tuesday and the first major snowfall of the winter. And with a new snow fall comes "new drivers" I realize patience is needed by all, but .... I guess I don't have any but's - I just need to be patience. And I am not complaining about the snow because really, we have had a beautiful fall up until now and it's November 16th.

Speaking of November 16th, Happy Birthday to my beautiful niece Susan and a welcome to the world to my new nephew Lyndon Nicholas. Ben called around noon today to tell us the wonderful news. When I asked when he was born, Ben said last night - But it's noon I told him - what took so long to phone - Ben said he had to sleep - I had to bring him up to date on baby ettiquette. Phone, phone, phone..... Can't wait to meet the little one.

Also had a dododododo moment. It was three o'clock and I was driving to pick up Patrick from school. On the radio came a song that I haven't heard on the radio in a very long time - it was one of the songs we used to sing in Carmangay all the time. "Last Kiss!" Seems to me it was a week ago we attended Uncle Len's memorial in Carmangay. Just one of those energy moments. I believe Uncle Len was thinking of me and I of him.

Anyway off to take Patrick to more soccer practices. I think I'll run a few errands.

Night
Stacey

Day 4 of November

Well what a wonderful Sunday to finish off a nice weekend. We are still snowless in Calgary, but I hear that will change this week.

Robin and I went to Stagewest for brunch and a show today. This was our birthday gift to each other. It was "Motown Gold!" Need I say more. It was a musical review - songs from Martha Reeves and The Vandellas, The Miracles, The Temptations, The Supremes, The Four Tops, Stevie Wonder, The Jackson's, Gladys Knight and the Pips, and the Cmmodores. Basically from pre-Motown - to early Motown to Disco Motown to the New Motown. It was wonderful. I was surprised at the number of "elderly" people in the audience. They must be season ticket holders - but I swear there wasn't one gray hair in the place that was boppin' to the music. Good thing the lights were down and the music was loud, 'cause I was dancin' in my seat and singing loud and proud. Hopefully I didn't embarrass Robin too much. In addition to the great show, the food was fantastic. I will be trying out Stage West again, no question!

After I dropped Robin off at home, I headed to Staples for some ink. Apparently the son had some homework he needed to print; I had already ordered some on line, but it wasn't going to be delivered until Monday!!! I guess you can never have too much ink.

Then I headed to Canadian Tire to look for my Christmas Tree. If you aren't familar with the Christmas Tree saga - it goes something like this. Last year we decided we needed a new "fake" tree. Ours was 25 years old and a little broken up. So I gave it to Robin to use until she got a new one. I wanted a tree with optic lighting. Found one at Canadian Tire. It was beautiful, but had one fault - the base of the tree wasn't big enough to support the tree and it kept falling down - over and over and over - I lost a few great ornaments. So I returned it after Christmas (with great difficulty) So today at Canadian Tire, I found my tree - unfortunately it was the same one as last year - fortunately I bought a wider base for it; unfortunately there will have to be some homemade adjustments in order for it to fit; fortunately it was on sale - and i got the tree I love. Now I want to make those adjustments so I can start decorating in my spare time - hahahah - almost fell off my chair laughing.

Any way, time to clean off my desk and head to bed - another busy week is almost upon us. I love my life!!!!! (I must so not be PSM'ing)
Night to all

Stacey

Day 3 of November

It is the 11th of November and I have only blogged three times. So sorry. November 11th. Remembering. I was very impressed to see that when I went to Chapters this morning, they were closed until 11:05.

It was a busy day though. Worked two different stores. Spent 4 hours at Chapters just getting the Christmas stuff set up. Boy was I tired, hungry and thirsty when I got home. I left a note for Patrick to get supper started. The note read, please boil the potatoes - peel them and cut them into quarters. Well obviously I didn't put the instructions in the correct order, because when I came home, the entire potatoes were sitting in a pot of water on the stove. I should have put, please peel and cut into the quarters the potatoes and then put them on the stove to boil!!!! What was I thinking!

I had a wonderful email yesterday. It was from my friend Rose. She invited me on a trip to Mexico in April. Check my calendar - checked Bill's calendar - checked with Bill - he didn't even blink twice, and told me to go!!!! So guess what - I'm going. An entire week. Sun, food, great ladies and a few margaritas!!!!! Cinco de Mayo has come early to the Wee household. Looking forward to it Rose.

Had a wonderful heart to heart talk with the son this afternoon. It's been almost 8 months that he and his girlfriend have been going out. I don't want to betray his confidence, but we are on the same page on alot of things - and I feel our mother-son relationship is a great one! What a son!

Also had a great conversation with Sam's mom. Looks like Sam is moving on and up in January. She is such a great lady. We are so going to ace these next few tests. That means I might actually be down by one job!!! It is one of my favorites...

Now I just trying to get a few things done on the computer. Need to book Ashley's flight home for Christmas - the computer isn't letting me do it, so I'm stuck on hold waiting for help. Also I need to scan some pictures for Ashley. Seems the people at work are planning a surprise for Bill for his 50th and they'd like a few snapshots - Bodybuilding picture maybe!!!!!

We are still snow free, but you can sure feel the snow in the air. Hopefully nothing with materialize until Patrick gets home with my car from his soccer session.

I think that pretty much covers the day. Need to get some knitting down and finish up the Christmas cards.

Night
Stacey

Day 2 of November

What an amazing day; what an amazing service; what an amazing family; what an amazing man! Where to start. It was the memorial service for Uncle Len on Tuesday. To say the room what packed with friends and family would be an understatement. There were tears, lots of tears, but there were also lots of smiles. I know Uncle Len was proud and honored to have everyone at the service. But he would have also been a little annoyed that it takes a "funeral" to bring everyone together, when really all we need is a little effort. I truly don't understand why we wait. These "extended" family get togethers are always a blast. It's almost like any barriers are removed and everyone is just "themselves." It was so good to see everyone. All Uncle Len's sister's were there. And there was at least one representative from each of the families. That's how special Uncle Len was. Everyone loved him and he loved everyone. I know I could have stayed and visited all night; it was hard to leave. I know Mom had a great time. She was so happy to have all her kids there as well. Mom and I also had great conversations on the way to Carmangay and back. We reminiced, held hands, sang and laughed alot. I love those moments. To all my cousins, I am proud to say we are related.

We arrived back at Mom's by 9:30. We followed cousin Fred most of the way home. It almost takes longer to get across the city than to actually drive to Carmangay. I could go on and on about the day.....visits to Carmangay always bring back great memories. The old "hospital" house; sorting buttons; kick the can by the big - no the humungus tree in the back yard (or was it the front yard- I don't I knew which was the front or back of the house); the bunk beds; the train station; the ice cream down at the cafe; the haircuts by Paul; the pet duck that Doug had; Nestle chocolate milk powder overdose; the bathroom with no lock; the dirt basement; the piano; the Dr. Seuss books; the round dining room table you could never see; the colored water; the back door with that never locked; the discussion that one of the"Green" boys might be a vampire; the fuzzy tv screen to watch the hockey game; - I can close my eyes and remember it all.

So arrived home, changed and headed out to pick up Patrick from his soccer practice in Bearspaw. He sure seemed to glad to see me - or maybe he was glad to see my car. Either way I felt needed!!!

I actually started to compose this blog last night (De), but between being tired and Patrick hovering over me wanting the computer, I thought I'd finish it this morning. And finish it I have. I have 102 things left to do before I hit job number 3 or is it 4 today. Working at the Hamptons school and then soccer stuff. Somewhere I need to sneak into Chapters and get those Christmas cards out.

Here's the poem I wrote for Uncle Len

A husband, a father
A brother, a friend
But I know him best
As my dear Uncle Len

From when I was little
Til now that I'm grown
He's been the same man
That I've always known

From his belly grown laugh
To his music appeal
To his tricks with his teeth
At the end of a meal

His walk had a click
That I thought was cool
And the things he could make
With a wood working tool

So put a smile on your face
When you think of this man
Cause that's what he's doing
Looking down on the clan.

Love you Uncle Len.

Luv Stacey

Day 1 of November

I almost put day 15 of October, but alas, October has come and gone, and with it some of the most beautiful weather of the year. It our weather could stay like this 12 months of the year, I would give up summer weather (that wouldn't have been a loss this year)

It was been a busy week. I'm hoping this is unusual and not my norm, otherwise, I may have created a monster. I'm still enjoying all the jobs, but I did underestimate the time line. I figured a max of 27 hours a week - on a busy week; forgot travel time. That's where I have the most unproductive time. The good thing about it, is that although I am tired, I have no time to nap, so I'm in bed early and get a great sleep!!!! Maybe this is the new day format.

Had big plans for the weekend. I convinced Mom to take a trip with me to Lethbridge to visit Uncle Len. It took a fair amount of convincing. Mom is not one who is comfortable visiting people in the hospital. I'm not sure, but it may be from when Dad was sick and she was there all the time. Association some times plays havoc on your mind set. Anyway, I told her I was going with or with out her, but we were going to make it an over night trip - with a nice birthday dinner. Unfortunately Uncle Len passed away on Wednesday evening. I'm not sure if I have ever talked about my favorite uncle before. I can close my eyes and see his smile and when he'd laugh his shoulders would shake up and down. His laugh came from his belly. He gave the toast to the bride at our wedding 25 years ago. I can't remember his speech, but he gave me the most memorable gift; it was an inside joke and really too long to get into here. He gave us this present and said we couldn't open it until we got to our honeymoon destination. I couldn't wait, so I opened it on the plane. Turns out it was a bag of buttons. Those darn buttons went to Disneyland and on our cruise to Mexico. As far as uncle's go, he is one of the best.

Went and had coffee with Janice tonight. Dropped Patrick off at fitness and we met at Starbucks. It was a post birthday celebration. Janice looked good - no she looked great.

After we got home I was checking my emails and I had one from "ocean fish.com" Seems they got my letter; were quite apologetic; gave me details of their quality control system; and I'll should be looking for a gift package to be delivered shortly. As I said in my last posting - they have great products!

Tomorrow is going to be relaxing. I had cleared my calendar to take mom to Lethbridge. I guess it would be a good time to get those unfinished projects - finished.

Night
Stacey

Day 14 of October

My goodness this week flew by. My last entry was Tuesday, and it's already Saturday. It's been a long time, but I have been looking forward to this day all week. Just to relax and do nothing - or at least relax and do very little.
The past three days are a blur - I know I worked - that's all I remember. I think I got a bit of knitting done. Oh wait, that's what I haven't mentioned. On my list of 50 things - one was to learn how to knit. Well I am loom knitting. I hope that counts. I really didn't have any intentions of doing the loom knitting, but one day I was out shopping with my girlfriend Janice. She was looking at these looms and thought it would be something she wanted to try. We get all the way to the check out and she realizes she doesn't have time right now. But in my little hand is my 50% off Michaels coupon, so off course, I decide what a neat thing to try. So I've already finished one project (Janice's birthday present so I can't tell what it is right now) and I've started another project - which is either going to be a poncho or a blanket. I haven't quite decided because I'm not sure if I like the thickness of the wool for a poncho. I'll know better when I get a little more done. So that is 10 things off my list. I am down to 40!!!!!!!

So today Bill and I decided to try and fix the garage door that is broke - to keep a long story short - we've called someone in to fix it. The "wire" on the left side of the door had come off. We figured we just needed to get it back on. So as Bill was checking out the right side of the door to see how it should look, the wire on the right side breaks (actually snaps) from being corroded. Now had we fixed the left side and used the door, there is a good chance it could have come down on the vehicles or a person!!!! If that isn't the universe looking out for us, I don't know what it.

The day gets even crazier. I'm eating lunch and..... well I'll just let you read the letter I wrote:

Dear Sirs:
Re: Ocean's Albacore Tuna Snack Kit

I am a big fan of your Tuna Snack Kits. They are my saving grace when I'm in a hurry for a quick bite to eat, especially when I'm on the run. Imagine my surprise when at lunch today, I am finishing off a delicious can of tuna, and I discover something unusual in my mouth (and for once it' s not my foot.)

I've enclosed "the almost 2 inch foreign substance" which according to my paleontology books, appears to be a bone from an actual tuna fish. Ok, to be honest, I just googled it. (what did we ever do without google) I would have actually been a little more nervous had it not turned out to be a bone. Just the same you may want to have your "team of experts" examine the foreign object.

I thought this should be brought to your attention just in case you have had similar queries or maybe this is an isolated case. In any case, the code on the can was
M1H40C LFYCLCF 3CF3T.

I'm pretty sure I haven't been scarred for life - but I know I'll be a little more cautious when eating your tuna snacks. Or maybe I should switch to salmon snacks, and that way, the bones will be expected.

Sincerely yours.
Stacey Wee

And I swear this bone was almost 2 inches long. Could use it as a toothpick!!!!!!

Well the rest of the day should be calm - Patrick has a soccer game, so will drop him off and have a quick visit with my mom before I head back to watch the game. Tonight I am going to relax and knit!!!!

Have a great weekend.
Stacey

Day 13 of October

What was I thinking????? Never accept a job offer while you have been attending a workshop that fills you with so much energy.
Now I realize there are people out there who actually work a full day, day in and day out. But it's been awhile for me. Attended to three different jobs today (of course not counting the wife and mother jobs - thanks for the reminder Robin) First it was the preschool. And who doesn't love working with black paint! Then is was a quick energy bar in the car and off to cards at Safeways. Normally I'm only in that store about 30 minutes, but it was a little longer today as a new order came in. Then I rushed home to change my clothes, give the Maya a hug, and back to pick up the son and head to soccer. The kids were a little bit older today so there weren't as many criers. In fact I think there was only one, but he got over it really fast - once his mom gave him a little pep talk. So the son and I finished up there and headed home. We both had a quick bite to eat - he went off to his soccer practice with my car - and I went to the couch to take a breather. An hour later, I woke up from my breather - a little startled but also a litte more energized. It's been a while since I got a nap in!!!!!
Now the day was full enough, but there is always paper work from each job. Actually none from the preschool - but the cards and soccer needed some fine tuning. Hence why I am still on the computer at 11:35 pm.
I can honestly say I am very much looking forward to the weekend. It will be 2 days filled with much needed relaxation.
Oh I had an exciting event today. As I am heading out to pick up Patrick from school, I stopped and got the mail first. One of the mail items was a small package from Ashley. At first I thought it was probably some bill to pay, but the packaging suggested something more significant. It had the appearance of a picture. And I was right. Not only did she send me some gorgeous pictures that she and a friend had taken, there was a short little note inside. This from MY DAUGHTER. I actually had tears come to my eyes. It was so unexpected - no hint ahead of time - nothing. My baby is growing up (and turning into a thoughtful young lady).
K that was my feel good moment.
Time to turn in - tomorrow is going to be busy again, but only two jobs to attend too.

Night
Stacey

Day 12 of October

The weekend was here and now it's over. The time went by fast, but it was an amazing weekend.
First of all my cousin Cindy came for a visit. I'm not sure if visit is the correct word - she came for an enlightment session. It seems whenever we get together, there is never enough time to talk about everything. But the purpose of her visit this weekend was to attend a workshop. We actually attended it together and I am eternally greatful to her for bringing this wonderful tool into my life. It is called Psych-K. I'm not going to spend the entire blog going into what it is, but if you want to find out what it is about - just use that google button. We worked on muscle testing and balancing. I am exhausted at the end of the two day training. But it is a good exhaustion - I feel a relaxed tiredness - if there is such a thing. I just want to sit on the couch and watch a movie with Bill and Patrick (normally not my thing). The instructor was very knowledgable and very good at explaining in layman terms the subject at hand. I think the best part of the course was the people we met. Not including the instructor, her husband, and granddaughter, there were four of us in the course. Not only did Cindy and I have a connection, but the couple from Edmonton help to make the course the success it was. And I like to think there could be possible friendships in the making!
So that was during the day - and in the evenings - well let's just say, getting to bed before midnight was a challenge. Friday night when Cindy arrived, we played catch up. Luckily Robin was still at our house when Cindy arrived. On Saturday night, Cindy, Robin and I went out for dinner to Applebee's. I have a smile on my face just thinking of our evening. We had intended to spend more time at Robin's visiting, but I know I was ready to kick off the shoes and rest. When we got home, Patrick and his cousins and friends were hanging out carving pumpkins. They sure looked like they were having fun. I've always wanted our home to be the one the kids like to hang out at - mess and all.
This week is going to be a busy one and I'm excited. I've been asked to help out at soccer camps for a salary----- I believe that's up to 6 jobs. I've missed the little soccer kids. It's fun to watch them learn and to watch the teenagers learn to teach and deal with younger ones.
Needless to say tonight is going to be an early night.

Deepak Chopra
“There are no extra pieces in the universe. Everyone is here because he or she has a place to fill, and every piece must fit itself into the big jigsaw puzzle.”

Night
Stacey

Day 11 of October

I can't believe October is 1/2 over. Time just seems to fly by so fast.
Had a nice evening on Wednesday night. Went to a function at the manor where my Mom's lives. It was to celebrate the completion of all the construction that had taken place over the past few months. It was a "HoeDown!" My heart warms when I see some of these elderly people. There were munchies, cash bar and entertainment. First there was a family of fiddlers. There were pretty good. Then there was square dancing. I didn't think it would enjoyable, but I was impressed by the caller. She basically takes some regular music (for those of us who think country music is regular) and in addition to the lyrics, adds the instructions. I learned alot. For example, the reason couples dress alike is so that the "caller" can tell who belongs together, so by the end of the song, they can make sure the correct partners end up together. Well of course they were looking for volunteers to teach some of the residents. Somehow I got roped into going up (my arm is still bruised from the twisting) It is just as difficult as line dancing. You have to focus on what the caller is saying. I actually enjoyed it. What are the chances I could get Bill out to do square dancing in a year or two. You don't really have to have any rhythm!!
Today was working at the preschool. Small group again. I think the flu bug must already be hitting some of the kids, but the morning went fast anyways.
Patrick had fitness tonight so I car pooled with another family so I could have my car. Dropped in to Walmart and picked up some wool Going to try another project with the loom. Will keep you posted.
Bill is doing well. He's a little frustrated on the questions still; why, what where and when. But is coming to grips with this could be a lifetime thing.

So I have crossed off another thing on my 50 list. It has been 1 month since I quit drinking soda pop. I must say, I don't have the cravings any more. I have replaced it with sparkling water, but even then not a lot. Although my month is up, I may keep this up for a while longer. So now I only have 43 things left to do.

Off to start my knitting loom.
Stacey

Day 10 of October

Yawwwwwn! Nothing like being woken up at 5:00 am to the sound of the house alarm going off!

Turned it off; did a check of the house; nothing out of the usual. Unfortunately for the next 2 hours Maya was pretty sure she needed to keep barking to scare off the "nothing unusual!"

The only logical explanations I could come up with for the surprise this morning was:

1) I noticed the Herald was sitting on the front porch, so maybe the paper man threw it too hard (it's not like it was a heavy paper though)

2) The radio said it is very windy outside - Chinook like conditions, so the winds could have cause a little havoc!

3) We could have ghosts - or maybe it was just Mom, coming to check on us because Bill's not around (that would explain Maya's refusal to give up barking)

4) Maybe the deer were eating my plants outside Ashley's bedroom window and bumped the window with their butt (or horns)

5) Maybe there was actually a burgular trying to get into the house ------NAW!!!!!



In any case, it made for a very long day! Dropped the son off at school and I headed into work. Thank goodness there were only 15 kids today instead of the usual 18!!! Busy morning, but fun. Then I had a text from Bill that he was ready to come home. The discharge nurse was so nice; she reminded Bill that he was to listen to me; and if he didn't I was to give him a swift kick; and take him to emergency and while there; ask for my shoe back. I love this lady.
So we came home and Bill headed straight to his office to finish up some paper work. That's relaxing for him. I on the other hand was in dire need of a nap!!!!! I'm such a wimp.

There was a message on the phone from Patrick's doctor's office. He needs to go in to discuss the results of his CT scan. They said it wasn't urgent - so he'll go in and discuss when he goes in for his physical! Sounds like good news to me!!!

I went into work at Chapters in the evening and then came home and just cleaned up and got ready for bed.

Night
Stacey

Day 9 of October

The morning started with a short pity party! Didn't last too long - music wasn't great, company was ok; I guess one is entitled to one of these every now and then.
I had the opportunity to sleep in this morning, but the internal clock had me awake at 6:30. Patrick had his CT scan scheduled for 11:45. We had instructions to be there 30 minutes early, and we were. Actually we were there almost 45 minutes early. And I'm still in shock that we were in and out of there by 11:20. Took us longer to park and leave the parkade then it did for the actual test. The office was empty. What I don't understand is there is this long line up/waiting times for CT's, etc and yet, there was nobody in the waiting room the entire time we were there. I think there need to be some major scheduling adjustments.
So I dropped Patrick off at school, just in time to have lunch with friends. Seeing how I was near the Home Outfitters, I went and worked on the cards. Got a few other errands done before it was time to pick Patrick up from school and take him to work.
I figured this would be a good time to go and visit Bill. And it was. I got a little bit of a scare though. I walked into his room; his name was still on the door; but he wasn't there; he had been replaced by a tiny little chinese man. So I checked with the nurse station, and yes he had been moved. Turns out they needed his bed and Bill was moved to the overflow room - it used to be the patient/visitor lounge. On a positive note, he only has two room mates now instead of three. Bill said the American health system is starting to look pretty good about now. If everything goes well, Bill could be out by tomorrow; but I'll be giving him his blood thinner shots; great another job. He is getting a little bored; but he does look relaxed.
I left at supper time and headed back to pick up Patrick. Home at last.
This is going to be an early night for me.

Night all
Stacey

Day 8 of October

Where did the weekend go?
Pretty quiet around the Wee household.
Went and picked up Aunite Iris and Uncle Wing this morning. They wanted to go see their nephew!!! I love them. We didn't stay too long. Bill was full of spunk and vinegar. He was just on his way for a shower when we showed up. About ten minutes later the nurse comes in and tells him he isn't allowed to shower yet. Poor guy - he could have been in and out if we had been 10 minutes later.
Of course he was sitting up in bed, gown all over the place (thank goodness for boxers) and work papers spread across the bed! I love it when he relaxes.
So left the hospital and dropped Auntie and Uncle off at Safeways. They wanted to do some shopping and take the C-Train home. Then I headed back to the soccer field to pick up Patrick. They are lucky to be having such nice weather and still be able to do some practicing outside. Drove him home and then I went and picked up my mom and took her grocery shopping - to Safeways. I had planned on hitting Costco and Michaels afterwards, but I'm a little pooped (tired not have to) so I just came home.
It's going to be a quiet afternoon and evening around here. Will wait for Bill's phone call this evening. (he doesn't want me to come back in the evening again!) He is so bossy!!!

Afternoon/night
Stacey

Day 7of October

TGIF or Holy Crap, what a Friday! Not sure which way to go!!!
First of all, despite everything that has happened today, I feel my energy is still pretty positive - it's everyone's elses that needs to be worked on!!!!
Bill left for work this morning; a little tired - he hasn't been sleeping well; he thinks he might be coming down with something; feels congested (more of that later) Then it's Patrick's turn; he's already to go but can't find his shuffle. Checks out in the car - not there - looks all over the house - bus is coming in 10 minutes - so he gathers up his stuff and decides to check the car one more time - nope not there. I press the remote to lock the car, as I stand in the house. Ahhh, peace and quiet. I've been up since 4:00 amish, because I can't sleep either. So I'm thinking it's a pretty good idea to go back to bed for an hour. Oopps - 10:00 before I wake up. That's ok because I've got 2 hours before I need to leave to pick up Sam. I'm moving slow, but I'm moving.
Time to leave for work - grab my stuff, head to the car, open the door (you know it's coming) put the key in the ignition - IT WON'T START AGAIN!!!!! It doesn't take me long to figure out - Patrick left the lights on again, only this time, it's the interior lights - you know to find his Ipod shuffle!!!! I look to the left, I look to the right - two vehicles I could move to start the car - but their not my vehicles - I'm pretty sure I can do it - but what if I do something to them. K, I don't have time to call Dad this time because by the time he gets up here, gets me started, Sam and I won't have enough time to get school stuff done. So I have to cancel class with Sam. I can sense the disappointment in her voice.
Now I'm pissed - not angry, not disappointed, but pissed. I probably should have cooled off a little before I sent my nasty text to Patrick. It took us a few text's before we both had calmed down, apologized and moved on. Probably took me a little longer. There is even a happy ending and a couple of lessons learned in this story. Patrick figured out how to get to and from his hairdressers way down south (macleod and heritage drive). Plus, when Patrick got home, he moved the truck closer to my car and I taught him how to boost the vehicle. We considered keeping this a secret from Bill - but really, that's not my strongest quality.
So the day gets even more interesting. Bill comes home from work, and he is dragging his butt. He is in the closet getting changed (it's a big closet) and he's sitting on the floor, and it is difficult for him to catch his breath. We both agree he needs to get himself checked out. We just can't agree when. I suggest ASAP, he suggest's when he's ready. Of course we do it his way. In the meantime he tells me my tires look flat. So I turn on the air compressor and fill my tires (don't want him to have any excuses for not going to the hospital) He finishes his supper; checks out the paper work on his desk. Finally he drags himself to the garage door. I've now convinced him this isn't normal for him (maybe for me) and he agrees we can go to emergency.
One good thing about emergency - if you tell them you can't breath, they get you in right away. So without going into the entire 5 hour ordeal, turns out Bill has two blood clots; one on each lung. They are probably from his recent surgery. I think he feels better already, just knowing it was something, and not the fact he's just getting older.
So now I'm home, he's still in the hospital waiting to be admitted. He promised to call in the morning to let me know where he is. He also promised to relax and take it easy. So I get home, check me emails, and there is one from Bill to Ashley, explaining some paper work. That means he's laying in the hospital emergency bed, and still not relaxing. What am I going to do with that guy.!!!!! I could go on, but like I said, I myself am still feeling positive energy, and I'd like to keep it that way; so I'm off to bed.

Night!
Stacey

Day 6 of October

Another beautiful fall day in Calgary. Well at least it was up by our house. I talked to my Mom on the phone and she said it was windy where she was. Keeping in mind, I don't think she has stepped outsite today.

I called Mom to ask her if she wanted to go out - this was at 6:15 pm. She was already in her PJ's. I'm pretty sure I get brownie points just for asking. I heard the weather was going to get colder, so thought it would be a nice night to take her out. Oh well. I'll pop over there on the weekend. She was in great spirits, except for this nagging cough. She may have to get her thorax drained yet.!

Worked at the preschool this morning. Found out one of the little boys is leaving. I was just starting to get him to talk too. He doesn't have a lot of english, and is very shy, but he smiles and gives me high fives when he comes into the class room. His mom picked him up today and was very appreciative for all the school has helped him with. Both parents are going back to work, so he'll be going to day care now. He's one that is going to go far in school - very smart. There is another little boy, the same one who missed me last week when I was away. He wasn't himself when he first arrived this morning. But by craft time, he was back to himself. He kept calling me by the teacher's name. Then he had to go to the washroom. He was talking and asking questions as we walked to the bathroom. I kept reminding him that he needed to go pee first and then talk. "But Mrs. Wee," he says, "I can do both at the same time!" Really, he couldn't. He had me smiling for the rest of the day. Then there was my outgoing half of the twin boys; he came running into class this morning; headed straight for me (I was on the floor playing cars), jumped in my lap and started crying. Mom had already left so had no clue what was going on. When Mom came to pick him up, she said she wasn't aware what was going on either. Nothing like a needed cuddle to pick up your day (I was thinking more for me) Gosh I love this job!!! Those kids just fill my heart with......stuff!

So after school, it was off to Chapters and cards. Had a meeting with my supervisor. It was short and to the point and I was home by 2:30. And to my surprised the son (who had no school today because of parent teacher interviews) had all his chores done.



Had a surprise message from Patrick's doctor's office. Seems they have an appointment for him for a CT scan already. It is for Monday the 18th. Talk about fast. Sometimes things come through. Now I'm a little concerned that they got it so fast. But my positive thinking is telling me, there must have been a cancellation. It will be nice to have it over with and stuff ruled out. Big dillema. The son has a math unit test at the time of the test. He's not happy about missing the test (I think this is my son), Hopefully the teacher is an understanding person (don't want to have to bring out the big guns)

Anyway thats my day.
I am feeling pretty great about being me!
Stacey

Day 5 of October

I obviously took the long weekend off of blogging. But I'm back. Short synopsis - Saturday - not much; Sunday had a nice Thanksgiving dinner at Karen and Ben's home. It was a great dinner, and great company. A fairly early night. Monday, Bill and I went to Swiss Chalet for dinner. I had a craving for their ribs. Patrick returned home around 10:00 pm; this was after his second Thanksgiving dinner that weekend.
Tuesday - is usually my work day, but Patrick had a doctor's appointment in the morning. It was one of those - lets get to know each other appointments. Talk about good timing. We were able to discuss the headaches Patrick has been having. The doctor mentioned that they sounded like "cluster headaches". Once I check that out on google, I'll be better informed. She is going to run a CT just to be safe. I would still like to know what brought them on. Then I dropped the son off at school and headed into work on cards at Safeways. Took a little long than I thought; but managed to get in a couple of quick errands before I had to pick Bill up at work. He had a 1:00 appointment to get his cast off - YEAH!!!! He actually thought I was going to drop him off, sit in the car and wait. Please! So I went in with him and watched them take the cast off. I'd be a little nervous about them cutting into my leg. Anyway the leg seems to be healing. They put a walking cast on with the instructions not to put any weight on it yet. What are the chances he'll listen this time?????
Today was my day to stay at home. The car needed it's oil changed, so Patrick dropped it off at the station right across from his school. I made a new recipe for supper and an old recipe. The new recipe was using up the left over ham from Thanksgiving. The old recipe was one I got from my friend De. It was for yams. Don't tell Ashley, because it is her favorite. It's more of a desert to me; taste just like pumpkin pie!!!! I didn't have any pecans - no anybody with a pecan farm??? It turned out great and was enjoyed by Bill and I.
There is another item to take off my 50 list. Last year I took Line Dancing lessons and that has been on my list for a long long time (even before I officially started a list) I had hope to start up again this year - but time is still a factor for me. (especially with the car sharing now)
So now I am down to 43 left out of 50.

Off to read a little.

Night
Stacey

Day 4 of October

I believe I forgot to mention on my previous blog - But going to see Brad Paisley was on my 50 list (there is also one more person I want to see in concert that is on my list) Anyway that is one more off the list - 44 to go.

Today was the busiest day ever and it didn't end on a positive note. Left the house at 8:00 am this morning and headed to the pre-school. I was covering for the other ed. assistant. Busy morning, but fun. Then I stopped in at co-op for a sandwich to eat in my car. I was off to pick up Sam and head to the college. We got a lot accomplished in class today. So I dropped Sam off at home around 3:45. Headed straight home and put some hamburgers on the BBQ. Bill had the day off, but was basically working from home. The son was taking a nap. Cleaned up a little bit from supper, then I had Patrick drop me off at Chapters around 5:45 to work on cards. He took the car to soccer practice. Now the plan was for Patrick to go home after practice, shower and pack, then come and pick me up from work and I would take him to Stefan's house. By 8:30 pm I was tired and ready to go home. I called the house to see if Patrick was on his way, and Bill said he left 5 minutes ago. So I stood outside Chapters in the beautiful fall weather and waited, and waited, and waited. I was starting to get a little worried - new driver and all. I wanted to call Patrick's cell, but didn't want him to even consider picking it up while he was driving. So I waited a little more. Finally I called to leave a message on his cell. Low and behold he answered. "Where are you?" I asked. "At Rogers Video with Stefan." Obviously I didn't get the memo of the addition to the plans. Needless to say, I wasn't a happy camper. I didn't think my tired body would have any room for grouchiness - but it did. I was trying to stay angry in the car, but with those two boys chatting it up and joking around, it was difficult. Lesson learned - don't depend on Patrick for a ride home, keep the car myself.

So now it's 10:30 and I am ready; actually more than ready for bed.

Good night
Stacey

Day 3 of October

Tuesday was a weird and wonderful day!

Lets start with the wonderful. I've been holding back this secret since my birthday. The kids bought me Brad Paisley tickets for my birthday. Well Tuesday night was Brad Paisley! He is one of the premier showman ever. And boy can he play a guitar. He played every song I knew. We had floor seats - they were way back (thank goodness for big screens). But at one point, he walked back to us and sat on a small stage and sang a couple of songs. He remembers when he used to go to concerts and what it felt like to be way in the back. I stood up on a chair to take his picture (no camera's allowed - yeah right) My date was Shaunan. What a trooper - not only did she barely know Brad Paisley - but she stood right along side of me all night - yes stood - nobody sat all evening.

I had mentioned on the previous blog that I won some tickets - well it was to Brad Paisley - Shaunan also won some tickets. We gave my tickets to Janice and Sam and then Shaunan gave her tickets to the Country 105 booth, so they could give them away to someone. What a wonderful feeling.

There wasn't a low point in the evening. Ok maybe two low points. The first was when I was standing on the chair, I slipped and the couple asked me "Mam, are you ok?" Mam - not missy, honey or sweetie, Mam. Then there was the cowboy beside me. I'm not sure but I think we are engaged. I swear the way he was sitting and rubbing calves with me, and the odd time a butt cheek. Why do guys have to sit with there legs so ----- what's the word ------open!!! If nothing else, it gave Shaunan and I something to laugh about.

Now this is the weird part, I'm driving home from the concert and I have a text from the son. He asks me to come and see him when I get home. So I call his cell. No answer. So I call the house phone - Bill answers (in bed already) Seems the son had another one of his bad headaches at practice. This is the second one in two weeks. Stress maybe - lack of sleep maybe - too much computer - maybe. Anyway when I get home is already zonked out. I try waking him and talking to him. I get a few answers out of him, but mostly babble.

The weird continues Wednesday morning - I wake the son up at 6:45 to find out what time he needs to get up. Seems he supposed to leave by 7:30, so he should have got up at 6:00. Clue #1. Then he asks why I never came to see him last night . Clue #2. Then to top off this weird morning, he has to go into my car to get his shoes, books, backpack, wallet, etc and the car remotes won't work. Great broken again. I'm starting to get fed up with these things - but both of them. So he opens the door manually - no alarm goes off. He tries unlocking the door with the inside lock - doesn't work - then I clue in. The battery is dead - . I suggest he must have left something on when he came home - talk about automatice defence - Not a chance he says!!!! I'm thinking with 3 clues, he obviously wasn't himself when he got home last night.

If I were brave, I'd pull out Bill's car, or pull over Bill's truck and start my car - but no.. So I call my favorite father in law and he is so kind as to come up and start my car. Thanks Dad, you're a gem.

So I spent the day setting up two new stores for cards. From 10 til 4:30. Busy but fun. One of the stores is a new one for me!!! Yeah. Needless to say I was dragging my butt by 9:00 at night.

Stacey

Day 2 of October

Christmas poem........I should be working on that for someone, but who was it?????? hahahaha



K, I'm starting off this blog with another of my 50 list. I was going to wait to annouce this one, but it has started. One of the items was to enter 100 contests. This item began end of August. And to date I have entered three and won two. I phoned into a radio station and won tickets to Paul Revere and the Raiders; SUP book; and $25.00 gift card at Pizza 73. Today my girlfriend Shaunan sent me an email to enter a contest (more about the contest tomorrow) and I won two tickets (she did as well) I've also bought alottery ticket in the cash and Cars and more lottery. I'm looking 3 for 3 here.

The son took the car today. He needed to fill up with gas, and actually has never done that before. I'm pretty sure he would have had enough in the tank for the day, but I know the feeling about being worried if you're going to make it some where. So I went with him this morning to the Superstore; let him fill up with gas (of course my credit card) and then he headed off to school and I did my walk home (instead of the tread mill) I sure do get a lot down when I know there is no place to go.

Had leftovers for supper, and except for ironing, laundry is all done; beds all changed; and it will be an early night for me.

Night
Stacey

Day 1 of October

I almost wrote Day 12 of September. Where has the time gone?

The fall colors make going outside so enjoyable. Hope it lasts a little while longer.

Speaking of longer; what a weekend. I'm not sure what is worse - Bill gone all weekend golfing, or Bill home all weekend: Wait I do know!!!!!! I hope we as a family can survive 2 (possibly 4) more weeks of crutches. I know Bill is very frustrated about not being able to do things and especially at a faster pace. Deep breath Stacey, deep breath.

Patrick had a soccer game on Saturday. The first indoor game (exhibition mind you) of the season. And as per the course, it was way in the South. The Arsenal won. It was difficult to get back into the mind set of indoor play; and that was just for me as a fan; I can only imagine for the players. Patrick scored one of the goals. Both teams seemed a little unorganized, so it probably could have gone either way. Hopefully they pick up on each other's skills and make it work for the rest of the season.

I managed to get a couple of baby cards made (no names mentioned) and most of the laundry done in between.

Sunday I popped over to Mom's for a visit. For her birthday I am helping her send Christmas cards and a christmas letter. I just wanted to get her approval on the the letter. Had a nice visit with her neighbor Bev. She is a lovely lady and is always looking out for mom.

Came home and had a quick bite and then we headed off to the cemetery. Sure miss Mom Wee alot.

Supper was a work in progress. I had been at Costco and thought it would be a good idea to have dimsum for supper. So I bought a few different dishes. When it was time to start cooking, I got the steamer already, only to find out (from the son who actually read the packages) that everything needed to be baked. As delicious as it was, it was more worked than I anticipated. The food was good, and I think I would do it again for a group of people as a munchie type night.

There is another thing to take off my 50 list: Visit our old house in Westgate. I actually did this last November. I was early for a meeting so I went and toured the old neighborhood. It's funny, I don't have alot of memories from that house, even though we lived there 5 years. I actually have more memories from the next door neighbours; the Neilsens. So now I only have 45 more things to do!!!!!

Off to work on Christmas stuff.
Night
Stacey

Day 11 of September

I love my job(s).
Worked at playschool this morning. It's official, the flu bug is out there. The morning went by so fast.
Stopped in at Safeways to work on the cards. That went pretty fast too. Still haven't located my missing red binder. I'm pretty sure nobody would steal it.
Then I hit Superstore. Needed just a few items. Thank goodness for all those gas coupons saved up.

I had great intentions of getting laundry done today, but by the time groceries got put away, hamburgers made (for dinner and for freezing) It was time to start supper.

I am still pop and (alcohol) free - both of which are on my list.

The son is still camping and Bill is still hobbling. I guess I could have skipped updated today.

I did get started on Mom's christmas presents. These are the presents from her to all her family.

Better get back to finishing up paper work.

Night
Stacey

Day 10 of September

It has been 3 days since my last confession - whoops, wrong blog. I have had soo much to say, but not enough time to say it. Thank goodness there is no pressure to write everyday. It has been a crazy week so far.
Monday started off way to early; Bill was still coming down from his drug induced state. I drove him to work; we left at 6:30 am as Patrick had to be to school by 7:00 am. Dropped off Patrick and headed downtown. I knew I was tired, but it was confirmed when, after I dropped Bill off at the office, I turned to head out of downtown, and went down a one way street, the wrong way. Good thing there were no cars coming. The parked cars should have been my first clue. So managed my way out of downtown (can't believe I worked down there for 8 years. I needed to drop off a parcel way out in the N.E. Done: Then I headed over to Mom's place. Had a quick coffee (hot chocolate in my case) and then I dropped the two off at Market Mall to shop for the day. Went to my Chapters store to meet with my boss. Quickly left there at an hour later and ran to meet my good friend Rose for lunch. Linguini kitsalano - my favorite. We had a really nice visit; next stop was back down town to pick Bill up from work early. While I was waiting in the car; the cell phone rings. It's Auntie Shirl. Now I'm supposed to pick them up at 3:00, and it is only 2:30. Seems Mom has run out of air - her tank "sam" that is. What to do. I have 2 more stops before I am supposed to get them. So Bill comes down and we head straight to the mall to pick up the ladies. Drop Bill off at Anne and Brian's - he's borrowing their car - automatic. Then we swing by the school and pick up Patrick - soccer stuff going on. Turn the car around and head back to the manor to drop the tired and air deprived ladies off. Now the son and I continue on to the soccer dome. He's helping coach and I'm helping check in. Once my job is over I head to the car for a 30 minute rest. Out comes the son, and we head to his school. He has a quick bite (take out) and then it's time for a meeting in the gym about the up and coming camping trip for the PE 30 kids. I am home and almost in bed by 8:30 pm. What a day. And that's only Monday!!!! Thank goodness I only have 4 jobs - 5 would take me over the edge.

Tuesday was similar and today a little lighter yet. I can't wait to get back to work tomorrow morning. The kids at preschool are not as tiring as I thought.

Love you Mom!!!!
Stacey

Day 9 of September

What a beautiful fall day. The leaves have changed colors and it just makes the most amazing picture. This is probably the best thing about fall.
Dropped the cousins off at home and Patrick off at soccer practice. Then I headed to the hospital to pick up Dr. House (Bill) The nurses said he had behaved himself and was a very good patient. ........ Will it last at home.
So brought Bill home, made him a quick bite to eat and I was off again. I dropped my car off at Patrick's soccer practice and Janice picked me up. We headed to Boston Pizza where we waited for Mom, Robin and Auntie Shirl. Had a lovely lunch. I ate way to much. And I really really could have used a diet pop or Margarita. I had neither. Stuck to water and boy did it taste good.
Janice bought me this lovely silver bracelet for my birthday; it is also partially magnetic - so health benefits too.
So it was back home after lunch and time for a quick snooze. I had a difficult time keeping my eyes open during lunch. After about the third phone call, I decided I might as well just stay up. Patrick and Stephanie ordered pizza for supper, but I was still full from lunch.
I spent most of the day getting caught up on paper work and straightening up. Tomorrow is another crazy day. (Bill insists on going into work - so I better drive him)

Good night
Stacey

Day 8 of September

What an eventful start to the day.

I was awake early to drive Bill to the hospital. Being the good wife that I am, I went into the garage to start the car and warm it up for him. (always the optimistic - he was wearing golf shorts) Pressed the garage button and heard a bang. Looks like we'll be needing some repairs to the garage door. It's seems to just be the wire off kilter - but who knows. So Bill had to hold the door up manually so I could back out. (I was a little nervous that I would be learning to drive the standard a little soon than I had anticipated). Then of course the garage door wouldn't shut all the way. So Bill had to get his keys and lock all his vehicles. But I'm thankful to say, I at least managed to get the door closed when I got home.

We spent the afternoon in Banff. Patrick drove us there (I think his confidence is what makes me nervous) and I drove home. We went to help celebrate Auntie Ming's 85 birthday. I haven't seen her in over a year (she had come to visit mom a year ago) and she has certainly aged a bit since then, but she did still pretty spry. Had a visit with family and then Patrick, Dad and I headed home. There were no messages from the hospital so I called. Seems everything went well, but the spinal freezing hadn't worn off yet; they want Bill to get some physio before he leaves so they will be keeping him overnight.

Another item off my 50 list. I had wanted to organize all our home videos onto CD's. Well I managed to do that last spring. Thanks to Anne and her fancy, dancy transferring machine. So I believe that is four things off my list - only 46 to go.

The cousins are over doing homework with Patrick, and they are actually doing it. Last time I checked Patrick was cooking up a hot dog stir fry - yum. I'm off to bed.

Quote: " Getting out of the hospital is a lot like resigning from a book club. You're not out of it until the computer says you're out of it. " Erma Bombeck

Night
Stacey

Day 7 of September

Quiet day today. I stayed home most of the day. Actually I didn't have a choice. I let the son take the car to school. This is not going to become a habit (I hope)

Bill took the day off, so he headed to the gym and then a doctors appointment at the Rockyview Hospital. Well, he is officially booked for tomorrow morning at 7:00 for surgery. They think the tendon is completely severed. The doctor told him to get his last game of golf in, because he wouldn't be golfing for awhile. Men!!!!!

So while Bill was gone I got a few things done, and I managed to do another item on my 50 list. I read a book a couple of years ago called The Son-Rise Program. It is about healing children with Autisim. Apparently there was a movie made about the book. I've tried looking in stores and libraries but have never been able to locate it. So I'm searching the interest and it turns out I could watch the entire movie (in 10 parts) on You Tube. It is a great story, and if you know of anybody with a child on the austisim spectrum, this book and move give great hope.

I am on my day 5 of no pop/soda. And because I'm doing this, I thought I add another from my list; no alcohol for 2 months. That one shouldn't be a problem now that summer is over. I won't need to sit on the deck to enjoy a nice refreshing girlie drink.

Went into work at Chapters after the son got home and Bill left for golf. Took a little longer than I anticipated, but I enjoy working in the evenings when the store isn't so busy.

Time to get some paper work done.

Quote: "Achilles Heel"Goodbye to the sky, I know I can't fly, but I feel love do you know how I feel? you are my achilles heel. hello to below, I feel love flow like a river flow you and I standing still you are my achilles heel. "

Somehow this just seemed appropriate.

Night
Stacey

Day 6 of September

OMG - I don't think I can say that any louder!!!! If you remember I said on Day 4 (my birthday) I was going to start a no soda/pop for a month. Well I'm working on the computer today, turned on Dr. Oz - and guess what he's talking about. It is a 28 day challenge on no pop. Well I'm three days ahead of Dr. Oz. So I'm thinking this is going to be a piece of cake. Dr. Oz has an audience member join him, who drinks more than 5 pop a day. Now I have 3-5 a week. Then as Dr. Oz presents the challenge (which you can see on his website) and how to cut down slowly to avoid side affects. All of sudden, I'm feeling light headed, craving - talk about mind over matter. It was a very interesting show. If you didn't get a chance to see it, try seeing it on-line. He also talked about hot flashes and how to reduce them. 2 tbsp of ground flax seed a day (sprinkled on your food) will cut your hot flashes in half. I have my flax seed in a shaker next to my stove and I sprinkle it on everything. Who would have thought this would have been a learning day.

Well it's Thursday and I'm still in my birthday week celebration. Went out to dinner with Shaunan. We picked Ric's Grill because I got my yearly birthday coupon. Well I must be closer to 50 than I thought, because we forgot to use the coupon. Urgghhh. Had a great visit. The waitress finally gave us the hint that we should leave. Turns out we were in the middle of a Miss Calgary function. There were many contestants there. Alot of short, red dresses, and sashes and crowns.

Went to work this morning at the pre-school. Out of the mouths of babes. There is a little boy who was eating his snack. One of the teachers called him by name. He said "that's not my name, my name is Michael." The teacher said "That's your Dad's name." He said "I'm a man now, so that's my name now. " His theory : When you grow up you get to be your Dad. How cute. Forgot to mention to his Dad, but will try and remember Tuesday.


It is finally beautiful weather. How beautiful. After lunch, I grabbed the sunglasses and sat in the hot tub. I could have almost had a nap while I was in there.

I forgot to mention I made an interesting purchase the other day. It was at Chapters (where I picked up the christmas presents) I found a stapleless stapler. I've seen other ones, but this one really works. Now the plan is to put it someplace I will remember to use it.


Also cross another item off my 50 list. I wanted to find my Dad's gravesite (after many years of not visiting it) And I did, last spring. I actually went again this summer with Ashley, just to give it a clean up.

I think I've pretty much covered the day. Off to bed.

Stacey

Day 5 of September

Well, the good news is I didn't wake up to rain this morning. The bad news, there was snow on the ground. Not much, but enough to know it had snowed!!!

Well Hawaii 5-0 was everything I thought it was going to be. I didn't watch a lot of the old version, but the characters on this show have a Starsky and Hutch kind of relationship. The 1st show showed how the characters ended up together. Tonight is the Glee Season Prem. Thank goodness I don't have soccer driving duty...

Worked at the pre-school this morning. Seventeen of the eightteen kids were there. A new little boy started; not much english, but he's very smart. He's figuring things out just by observing. I had brought cup-cakes to share with the kids for my birthday. Turns out the church group also made my cupcakes and they all signed a beautiful card. It was very touching - brought a tear to my eye.

I stopped in at Chapters to organize a few things. The back room was packed and I didn't have access to everything - just straightened up out front; so I was in and out in 30 minutes. Will do a good clean up on Friday when I go in. I did pick up 4 Christmas presents. It's getting that time - to keep my eyes open for the "just right gift".

Straightened up when I got home. Patrick was supposed to do his sports med training with the girls soccer team after school. It got cancelled, so I picked him up at school and we headed to Staples to buy him a new calculator. His original one got lost; found one and it broke, so seeing how math season has just started!!!! Well we walked into Staples only to discover that the entire computer system was down. They couldn't take credit card or debit card transactions. I could have run over to the bank to get cash; but we decided to come back another night. It's amazing how much we rely on technology; Even the big stores.

Received a lovely card in the mail today from a girlfriend. At first I thought it was a birthday card - but then realized it was just a "because" card - and when I read the words - it brought a smile to my face. Thanks S.E.

Bill came home early from work so he could get a quick game of golf in. Turns out the course was closed. Too cold - not sure! Too wet - probably. He's scheduled for an appointment with an orthopedic surgeon on Friday. He's not sure what they are going to do. According to the xrays, they don't think his achillies tendon is even attached!!! Hmmm.. men.

Quote: Brad Paisley song "Is it raining at your house like it`s raining at mineDo you miss me like I miss you, is it cloudy all the timeDo you tremble when the phone rings and you think I`m on the lineIs it raining at your house like it`s raining at mine."

Off to finish up some paper work.

Night Stacey

Day 4 of September

Happy Birthday to Me. The weatherman was the only one who didn't come through today. More rain - if this keeps up, we really might move to B.C.

Received a new camera from Bill for my birthday. I lost mine a couple of years ago while on a visit to Dallas at Christmas. This one is a Sony; a little smalled and compact. I love it. Received many birthday wishes from family and friends on facebook. I love facebook! Had a nice first morning call from Shaunan too. Also received a surprise phone call this afternoon from my friend Cheryl in Dallas. Actually I shouldn't be surprised because I believe she has called every year.

Well I have already crossed one of my 50 items off my list! - PLAY BLACK JACK AT A CASINO. This was done of course when I went to Vegas with De back in August. Now that was my third time in Vegas and never had I gambled at the tables before - too intimidating. But I had been practising on line (fake money). I loved it. Thanks De for helping to cross off one item. And I am starting another item on my list - No soda pop for 1 month. It's become to cheap and easily accessible. You go for lunch, bring me a diet coke, or a sprite. Now it will be water or tea. Wish me luck. I don't think it will be difficult except for those non thinking moments.

IN THE NEWS TODAY: Actor Randy Quaid and his wife, Evi, are again in trouble with the law, facing burglary charges after the owner of a house they were living in claimed they were there without permission.
According to reports, the house in Santa Barbara, Calif., was formerly owned by the Quaids, but documents show that the current owner bought it. along with a guest house on the property, in 2007.
IN THE NEWS ON SEPTEMBER 20, 1961
The Joey Bishop showed premiered on September 20, 1961.
I don't remember the show, but I remember Joey Bishop.

Speaking of Premiers. Tonight is Hawaii 5-O. So looking forward to it. Mainly because the Korean actor from Lost is going to be part of the show. Will give my review tomorrow.

So supper tonight is quiche (I make a darn good one) and birthday cake. (and tea)

50 down and 49 to go.

Have a lovely evening.
Stacey

Day 3 of September

What a lazy day today. Might it have something to do with the weather!!! Probably. This rain is missing up my schedule. When it rains, Bill doesn't golf, and when Bill doesn't golf, he comes home, and when Bill comes home, things have to get done. (Plus he's a little grouchy)

I didn't get out of my PJ's until it was time to go for dinner. Patrick asked if I would fix a pair of jeans for him. So I hauled out the sewing machine (not my favorite machine in the house) and to my surprise 1 pair of jeans turned into 4. I finally had to ask why all his jeans had tears in the croch(sp). Seems the son has the tendancy to do lunges in his jeans. Cut it out. Not only to I dislike mending; patches are not my specialty. It takes everything in my power not to suggest that he take his jeans to Auntie Anne and beg!!!! I did something today, that I have never done ever, while sewing; I cut my finger with the scissors. The thread kept getting caught and I was getting frustrated, so I grabbed the scissors (my sewing scissors) and hastely cut the thread. Didn't quite move my left hand ring finger fast enough. And boy do fingers bleed alot and fast. Not only is there a cut on one side of the finger, but also on the other side of the same finger. Good thing I wasn't cutting with more force - could have taken off the entire finger.

As mentioned we went out for dinner - sort of a pre-birthday celebration. It was to the golf course. Bill, myself, Patrick and his girlfriend. Just a small gathering. I had the linguini - and it was delicious. Add to that, the pumpkin cheesecake for desert. The meals in the dinning room are always delicious and well presented. We came home afterwards and watched a movie "Alice in Wonderland." It was ok; as voted on by all of us.

Sent out birthday wishes to my cousin Ken. One year and one day older than me. Makes it easier to remember my age!!!!!

Quote: Received this from my girlfriend via an email today. Have seen it before, but thought it would be rather appropriate. You see tomorrow I turn 49 and I have been compiling a list of things I would like to do before I turn 50. I'm not going to reveal the entire list at once, but as I complete a task I will let everyone know. I started the list back in January, so there are a couple of things I have accomplished already and I will start posting them tomorrow.

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come...

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

Night

Stacey

Day 2 of September

I didn't think I would be writing in the Blog so soon. Couldn't sleep Thursday night. Actually that's not true. I was sleeping just fine (was having a gambling dream - and was up 48.00). Then I realized I had my user id and password for "card"work in my missing binder. I was up around 1:30 am trying to figure out a way to change the password. There wasn't so I had to send an email to H.O. requesting a change and admitting my "stupidity"! That's a good start to my second day of blogging.
Friday was a busy day. Attended to two of the three jobs. Worked Chapters in the morning. I swear people steal envelopes. Either that or they take a card, can't remember where they got it from, so grab an envelope from somewhere else. I sure hope my telxon gets here soon. Got a long list of orders.
In the afternoon picked up Sam and we headed to school. The teacher is such a nice lady, but she deals with a lot of very "rude" and impatient adult students. They were probably the same kids in school who always interrupted. This is one of those times where the quiet ones will fall through the cracks again!!!!
I was so tired when I got home; had one of those lack of sleep, not enough water, headaches. Then the son took the car to soccer practice and Bill went golfing. Tried to get some sleep, but my mind was too busy. Patrick went over to his cousins to get some help in math. Glad to see he's taking some forward steps to keep his marks up.
Didn't appreciate waking up to snow on Friday morning. It's bad enough we've had rain over the past week. Good bye summer (day), hello winter, fall you hid too long.

Quote: Brad Paisley "All you really need this time of year, Is a pair of shades and ice cold beer, And a place to sit somewhere near water" - oh we got lots of water, just not enough summer!!!

Stacey

Day 1 of September

Well, I'm back. I tried to stay away. I thought it would get easier with time. Actually it did get easier with time. Somehow it seemed like everyday I needed to vent about something. Oh sure, I could have pulled out the written journal - but where did I leave it last; and who has my pen? Then it would be "oh, never mind - I'll remember!!!!"
I can honestly say, this is a great way to remember moments and although I have started back up, I am not going to pressure myself to write everyday. That is why I have put the message out on facebook, if you want to be added to the email that sends this out when I write, it will come to you directly.

Quick catch up - daughter has gone back to ontario by car; husband went with her and flew back to Calgary; daughter celebrated her 21st birthday in ontario; husband tore his achilles(sp) tendon(the night before they left for ontario) and hasn't got it fixed it. Son has started grade 12; loves his bio teacher; thinking neurology might be his calling; indoor soccer season is starting soon; tryouts are underway - same old stuff that way; son got drivers licence - now wants car all the time; I'm back to work at preschool and with Sam so I technically have three part time jobs.

Today was a nice day. Worked this morning at the preschool. There were 16 kids; 1/2 were from last year and 1/2 are new. Great group of kids teaching me new things; I popped into Safeways afterwards as I believe I left my Card book there. Couldn't find it anywhere. No big big deal, but annoying just the same.
Came home for a quick nap - dreamed about disobediant 3 and 4 year olds!!!!!

The son was home for supper, but Bill figured he needed to get some golfing in. Yes I did mention he's injured, but he is a "MAN" afterall. Sometimes he uses his cane, and we call him House!!!. So I ran over to visit with Robin and Miss Caylee!! Oh my gosh she has gotten so tall; and I didn't think it was possible, but much cuter! Poor Caylee though, by the time I got there she was so tired. Took her a few minutes to come around, but the wait was worth it. And by the time she was heading home, she left me pick her up!!! Good timing Miss Caylee. Had a short, but nice visit with Alisa - did I mention she is such a good mom. Patience of a saint!!!!!!

Had a nice phone call from Bill's cousin. Seems his daughter is getting married in January and family is invited. Did I mention the wedding was at a resort in Florida!!! Must clear the calendar for that one.

Anyway that's the day in a nutshell. Early to bed tonight as tomorrow is a two job work day.

Quote: Brad Paisley song "When you see a priceless French painting, I see a drunk naked girl. You think that riding a wild bull sounds crazy, And I'd like to give it a whirl.
Love makes a man do some things he ain't proud of, And in a weak moment I might walk your sissy dog, Hold your purse at the mal, But remember I'm still a guy."

I think that song fits good today.

Night
Stacey

Day 365 - 0 Days to Go

Well this is it. The last day of my blog. I was hoping to be more prepared for this. But I have nothing.

I could summarize and talk about everything I already talked about. But really, the blog is there for review. I'm in the process of printing the blog out and placing it in my journal box. I'm only on Day 144. It's quite the project. Once it is all printed out I have intentions of re-reading it and seeing if I have learned any thing in this journey.

I know if I hadn't felt the pressure to write each day (when possible) I probably would have slacked off as I have down many a times in my written journals over the years.

I really have appreciated everyone who has followed and left comments or sent emails, or even those who reminded me I forgot to sent the blog. I would sometimes get in to bed at night and realized I forgot to blog, sneak out in the dark and put those daily thoughts down. The odd time I would wait until morning, as my mind was already asleep and only my body was in moving mode.

There was at least 15 followers, not every day but at least often enough to know what I was up to. I don't believe my kids or Bill ever looked at the blog, though they all have access any time they want.

I tried not to use their names throught out the blog (no real reason, just a test for me). Because I believe you are all friends and family you know the daughter is Ashley and the son is Patrick; and Bill is Bill and Maya is Maya. If there are any unidentified followers (wouldn't that be cool to have) then this is a secret revealed.

So this is where it started and ended; one year later. For those that haven't yet seen the movie Julie and Julia, try and watch it; it was my spark for starting this blog.

My next journey is still a surprise for me, I should try and finish some projects that have been sitting to the side.

I am going to post any learning revelations, but this time they will be directly to Facebook. Instead of enlightening a few people, I'll annoy a lot of people. Might bring down my friends numbers on Facebook.

Anyway it's been fun, it's been tiring but best of all. It's been.

BODY: Over 10,000 steps (barely)

MIND: "Life’s up and downs provide windows of opportunity to determine your values and goals. Think of using all obstacles as stepping stones to build the life you want." ... Marsha Sinetar

Good Night
and thanks for coming on this journey!!!!!
Stacey